How To Avoid Relationship With A Heart Breaker

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 If perhaps you have experienced heartbreak and have sworn never to have nothing to do with another relationship, this  post is written just for you and it is not a mistake that you have found your way to my blog and I believe strongly that you will learn just what you need to stay off from an ardent heartbreaker, and funny enough, these sets of heartbreakers already know the end result of their intention and move intently to see it come to fruitful.

Before I move to the  gold mine on how to avoid these persons with no good intention of having a relationship with you,let me quickly reminiscence a story of a heart breaker,I wouldn't want to mention names,but for this illustration I will use his name as John.

John used to be very committed and faithful with his partner and had given her the evidence of the doubt by training her to school and John's partner had also not given John any reason to look else where for love, because  what John saw in her , made him committed for good 5years  but never knew, the worse was stretching forth ahead of him, he was hoping to get married to her as soon as she completes her  studies according to plan but he was  surprised that his partner came to invite him for her wedding program taking place that same month and had no premonition about what had happened , if he had known, he wouldn't  waste 5years of his life committed to a partner, who will inturn get his  heart shattered and broken.

His partner,had endervoured to return all what he spent on her,but he  bluntly  said he doesn't want  refund and made a vow to revenge all the betrayal, pains, heartbreak caused by his partner on other innocent looking and loving young ladies, who sincerely want  genuine relationship with no intent of breaking his heart again!

But at this stage,John's heart is torn into pieces and wouldn't, want to be committed  to another ,his is just to play around for only God knows when his heart will be ready for another commitment,his heart will keep reminding him of his previous encounter and he will inturn transfer his aggression on those innocent faithful   girls and the result will be  breaking of so many hearts unknowingly to him and the question is how  do I know these traits ? and avoid myself from this love tragedy.

Another good instance,is Mary ,for the purpose of this illustration ,I choose to use the name Mary.

Mary had been very committed to James in their relationship and had no iota of doubt that  James and her were on same page as regards the love they both shared and they were going strong and not too long ago after seven  solid years of keeping faithful and telling other guys who were approaching her for relationships to stay off, because she was already taken, only for her to be welcomed by her friend , that her man , to whom she had been faithful to, is getting married to another lady just like that, with out no premonition.

Now let me go straight to how you will know a heartbreaker squarely before they get your fragile heart broken ,get your chilled drink or your hot tea,coffee as you want it and sit let's dive right in ok 

1)Is your Partner Always Talking About His or her Ex-Partner? Truth is , your partner always having any little discussion centered around  his or her  ex partner any time you want to have a meaningful conversation with him or her, just know that you will always be a second inferior to whom ever was his or her   previous partner, you should also know that gradually , your partner will always  want you to do things similar to that particular former partner, when you feel suffocated and wants out , he or she begins to  play the victim game, and subsequently you begin to feel pity for him or her. 



2)There is no Commitment: When a partner,can go for months or days without communicating with you,he or she comes up with flimsy excuse of am very busy  with work  he had been and would not communicate ,just know that you are not actually dating ,because anything can happen including heartbreak and more, in relationship if a person that claims to love you doesn't communicate regularly with you, it then means he or she has a special person that is taking him or her attention.





3)Is  Your Partner Free With His Possession:When you are in a relationship with your partner and most times than not , he or she does not allow you touch or receive their phone calls, or always  goes  somewhere  to  receive his phone calls, especially when you are around where he or she is, always passwords his phone, in a relationship, when two persons agree to date, there shouldn't be any form of secrecy between both, it is always where there is foul play  or a form of hide and seek game in the relationship, that you experience such, and more often than not, it lets to heartbreak , because the partner who passwords his or mobile phone has  another motive of double dating or cheating. 

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